Let's do what we want from others.

1. We want to get respect but we do it very rarely to others.  respect others and let's make it a two-way street.
2. We want others to be soft-spoken to us, you be soft-spoken first and see how everything comes again back to you. Eventually, what you give to the universe it will come back to you.
3. We want others to be non-judgemental but do you consider yourself non-judgemental? Let's be non-judgmental and hear everyone out with the same calmness.

Whenever you seek out something from others, ask yourself this question :

•  Am I doing things which I seek from others?

"Eventually, what you give to the universe it will come back to you"